Many men fail to understand that “romance” isn’t an event that occurs a few times each year.. Valentine’s Day, anniversary, etc. No, “romance” is a mindset: it’s a way of life. Once a man stops trying to think of romantic things to do and actually becomes a romantic, the romantic things will come naturally… from the heart, not the mind.
One of the most important things a man can do for his lady is to help relieve her stress and tension by learning reflexology and how to give his lady a world-class foot massage.
Reflexology is the art of applying massage pressure to specific areas of the feet, ears, and hands to relieve stress. The ancient Chinese discovered correlations between certain points on the feet and hands, and various areas of the body. It follows, then, that by stimulating those points, one can relieve tension and ease symptoms throughout the entire body.
Yes, there are reflexology points on the hands and, in a limited sense, the ears: so why a foot massage?
Because it’s also a romantic expression of love and care. The foot is one of her primary erogenous zones: while a hand massage is perfectly fine in a social or public setting, there’s something far more intimate about a foot massage that sets it apart. Learning how to give her a thorough foot massage not only relieves tension in her body, but it’s also a bonding moment of love and intimacy.
It’s during the foot massage that she can also decompress by venting the frustrations of the day. Let her tell you about her day and the trouble she’s had. Don’t try to solve her problems: just listen! Let her know that she’s safe with you, that her troubles will not get to her while she’s in your care. True masculinity protects and enables true femininity, allowing her to be at her best as a woman.
There are plenty of resources online about reflexology and pressure points; and how the sympathetic nervous system connects specific areas of the feet and hands to other areas of her body. A man can learn the basics in an hour or so: in three or four hours, he will have mastered it. This is one of those skills that a husband can use for the rest of his life… and his wife will genuinely enjoy and appreciate his using it for her benefit.
